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June 30, 2024

S4.E45. ALIENATION - PART THREE: Time Can Heal the Protective Alienator

Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Diane & Rick explore the possibilities of transforming the parental aliena...

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June 23, 2024

S4.E44. ALIENATION - PART TWO: “My Mom Was an Alienator”: A therapist tells his story

Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Jake, a mental health professional, joins Diane & Rick on this episode to ...

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June 16, 2024

S4.E43. ALIENATION - PART ONE: Can the Alienator Be Rehabilitated?

Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE In part one of a three-part series on parental alienation, the hosts take ...

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June 9, 2024

S4.E42. Practicing Real Anger Management

Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HERE Diane & Rick discuss the fallacies of traditional “anger management”. They also talk about different types and reasons for anger, and how it is important to respect th...

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June 2, 2024

S4.E41. What to Do With the Impossible Step-Parent

Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HERE Listener Maria asks what she can do to run interference with her kids when their step-mother seems bent on turning them against their mom. Even dad has apologized to m...

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May 26, 2024

S4.E40. Are You on a Mission for Peace or Revenge?: A Unique Look at Self Care

Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HERE Diane & Rick explore self care from the perspective of working on the root cause of co-parent stress, rather than treating the symptoms of the stress. They discuss it ...

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May 19, 2024

S4.E39. Should Dad Hold On or Let Go of This Conflict?

Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HERE John asks the all-important question, “Should I fight?” Diane & Rick break down the risks and benefits of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict. They explore the c...

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May 12, 2024

S4.E38. An Alienated Father”s Message (on Mother’s Day)

Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HERE Diane & Rick take a week off to spend time with their families, so today’s episode is featuring a new podcast created by a Co-Parent Dilemmas listener! Jack, the host,...

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May 5, 2024

S4.E37. Surviving the Psychopath: Evolving Your State of Mind

Has the co-parent world gone absolutely crazy? In some ways, yes! Diane & Rick discuss the disturbing patterns they often see in their work, and hear about from listeners, that signal the need for an evolutionary change in th...

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April 28, 2024

S4.E36. How You Say Goodbye Is A Big Deal

Claire writes in and asks what to do about a co-parent who takes more than 5 minutes to say goodbye to their daughter at each exchange. Diane & Rick discuss the importance of taking care during exchanges to send the message ...

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April 21, 2024

S4.E35. The Inconvenienced Parent

Listener Amanda writes to Diane & Rick regarding her co-parent’s complaint about their daughter’s activities being too inconvenient for him and his spouse to endure. The hosts discuss the concept of time with children being t...

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April 14, 2024

S4.E34. Caught in the Middle…Between My Ex and My Spouse!

Listener Ashley is frustrated by both her husband and her co-parent. She frequently finds herself caught between them, and none of it is helpful to her 12-year-old son. Diane & Rick explore the difficulties of navigating this...

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April 7, 2024

S4.E33. Should I Send the Kids to a Toxic Household?

Diane & Rick respond to a listener’s question about withholding parenting time due to a history of domestic violence and continued toxicity in their other home. What are the steps to determine safety issues? How do parents ba...

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March 31, 2024

S4.E32. Summer Sabotage

Diane and Rick answer listener Carlos’ question about the confusing paragraph in his parenting plan regarding the summer schedule. His co-parent is attempting to manipulate the schedule to get more time than the plan intends....

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March 24, 2024

S4.E31. I Want to Ghost My Narcissistic Co-Parent!

Listener Colleen wants to stop communicating with her co-parent so she can get emotional relief. Diane & Rick revisit the importance of following the structured email protocol and talk about the pitfalls of going silent or ig...

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March 17, 2024

S4.E30. “How Do I Get Her to Stop?” The Purpose of Boundaries

Diane & Rick address Zachary’s question about how to get his co-parent to stop bringing her toxic boyfriend to the children’s activities. He worries the children will get in the middle of the conflict. They discuss the purpos...

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March 10, 2024

S4.E29. Is It Possible or Probable? Let That Be Your Guide

Diane & Rick address listener Danny’s question about the top three issues facing high-conflict parents and how to resolve them. The hosts discuss the fact that the issues are not the problem, but what lies underneath them, su...

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March 3, 2024

S4.E28. Daddy’s Little Girl

Shawn asks a question about how to help her 19-year-old daughter repair her relationship with her father. Diane & Rick discuss the importance of acting parental no matter how old the child is. The discuss the daughter’s dilem...

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Feb. 25, 2024

S4.E27. The Problem with Self-Representation

Sometimes approaching your court case without an attorney can leave you vulnerable and without all the information you need to make good decisions. Diane & Rick explore a listener’s frustrations about her parenting plan langu...

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Feb. 18, 2024

S4.E26. Who Gets Final Say? Another Parenting Plan Disaster

Diane & Rick answer listener Ryan’s question about which therapist he and his co-parent should choose for their daughter. The one nearest dad or mom? What really matters? Is it possible to have a “harmonious” discussion, as t...

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Feb. 11, 2024

S4.E25. Narcissism in Co-Parenting: What is it? How do you respond? Will your child be a narcissist, too?

Diane & Rick discuss the mental health issues that are connected to someone with an extremely self-focused personality disorder, also known as a Narcissist. They differentiate the clinical information from what is promoted on...

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Feb. 4, 2024

S4.E24. My Child is Gaslighting Me!

Diane & Rick explore the phenomenon of children engaging in “gaslighting” as a strategy to either survive their parents’ conflict or to manipulate a parent to get what they want. Is it a learned behavior from an alienating p...

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Jan. 28, 2024

S4.E23. The Problem with Over-explaining a Concept!

Listener Heather shares a paragraph from her parenting plan entitled “Special Considerations”. Diane& Rick explore how you can go too far in trying to explain an abstract phrase and find yourself right back into the conflict ...

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Jan. 21, 2024

S4.E22. Infants, Toddlers, and Teens - Oh, My!

Diane & Rick address listener Shary’s dilemma about parenting time with an infant. How much does the co-parent relationship determine the best schedule? The hosts break it down, as well as discuss the similarities between tod...

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